In short, it’s really easy to let communication with an ex-spouse, or soon-to-be ex-spouse, or spouse with whom you’re struggling, take over your entire life. And especially when it’s over email it seems to take over more of your life.
How to Survive a Nesting Arrangement
Actually, our nesting arrangement gave me a lot of empathy for what my kids went through once we actually did start living in two houses and they were the ones who had to switch back and forth.
Nesting as a pre-divorce solution
However your separation happens, one of the trickiest things to handle once you have decided that you are getting a divorce is how to arrange your living situation.
How I was able to afford my house post-divorce
I remember reading lots of articles like this one online during the years that we went through our split. I expected to find an answer in one of them. And I didn’t. I also remember the day when I looked at the numbers and realized that the only answer that would give me peace was to buy out my ex.
The Thing I Almost Never Did Before My Divorce That I Do All the Time Now
in the first month after our divorce I quickly realized that I was spending more time alone in my house than I ever had when we were married
The Best Decision I Made Post-Divorce
I like to say that she’s my third redhead, and I firmly believe that she is one of the things that saved my life after divorce.
What Living Without Heat During a Week of Freezing Temps Taught Me About Survival, and How it Saved Me $3000
I wake up the day after Thanksgiving to find that the house is cold. Colder than usual. Something is wrong.
“I’ve been there”: Dealing with the pain of revisiting places you’ve only been with your spouse after divorce
Isn’t it funny that, to express empathy, we say, “I’ve been there?” As if pain is a place that we all visit from time to time.
My Divorce Story
I didn’t realize that working on my marriage was something that “I” couldn’t do. It was something “We” had to do.